tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post8124656624464309809..comments2023-08-28T05:41:00.551-07:00Comments on Growing a Violet: RetardedAmber Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08636946528610580637noreply@blogger.comBlogger96125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-69054212235152334722022-12-13T19:05:02.635-08:002022-12-13T19:05:02.635-08:00Video
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I can tell that you are a kind and sensitive...Dana,<br />I can tell that you are a kind and sensitive person from your post, so even though I don't know you I want to help you learn one more way you can be respectful to people with disabilities. Please don't call the person the disability. My child is not downs, he is first a child and he happens to have ds. If you were told your child was going to be downs, I am sorry. You should have been told that your precious daughter would have down syndrome because that would only have been a small part of her identity. We don't refer to people with high blood pressure by their diagnosis first, they are people first as are all people with disabilities. I used to think that was simple pc crap, but recently read John 9, the account of the man who was born blind. When Jesus and his disciples refer to him, they use people first language. When the neighbors and Pharisees refer to him, they simply see him as the blind beggar. Its subtle but it makes a difference. Thanks.GodsDesign139https://www.blogger.com/profile/00548063110746867610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-3933615272041000482012-07-30T09:07:40.460-07:002012-07-30T09:07:40.460-07:00Unfortunately, it's because of people like you...Unfortunately, it's because of people like you that many children with disabilities don't feel like they belong. It's not just a word. Until you see the pain on a child's face after hearing that word, you really have no clue what you're talking about. I'm not sure if you are just pitifully seeking attention, but honestly I feel sorry for you. Especially when hurting a child, one with special needs to boot, makes you feel superior or better about yourself. I hope you get the chance to meet one of these beautiful and influencial people because until then you really have no clue. Thank you for voicing your opinion because it just goes to show that the world and the society we live in are not 100% accepting of these children. I am proud to say that even though I am only 15 I will never be a person like you, as I was blessed with a sister with Down Syndrome. Thank you for this post Amber and I apologize for this persons negligence to both you and Violet. Take care <3Kimberlynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-78669816231108942042012-07-16T16:55:59.209-07:002012-07-16T16:55:59.209-07:00My oldest daughter (Alyson) will be 40 this month,...My oldest daughter (Alyson) will be 40 this month, but in truth she is about 14 years... we have lived with the comments 'gee why didn't you put her in a home', or what did you do that she is 'r', she is not DS but had the cord around her neck during labour... <br />thank you for doing well with your children... I have cried, screamed 'why me?' and so many other things over the years... she also was born deaf (has had 15 surgeries) and now hears about 50%... but through it all she is the most loving, caring child/woman that anyone could wish for...<br />Sherisheri139https://www.blogger.com/profile/00793435301459618016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-77631387529831530962012-03-08T20:03:31.127-08:002012-03-08T20:03:31.127-08:00Violet is so lucky to have you as her Mom! And sh...Violet is so lucky to have you as her Mom! And she is beautiful!Gayle B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01873398466503352648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-72593861602780504942012-03-08T12:15:47.242-08:002012-03-08T12:15:47.242-08:00Rachel, best response I have read to date! Love yo...Rachel, best response I have read to date! Love you all too!Amber Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08636946528610580637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-33675271328794122092012-03-08T12:12:50.262-08:002012-03-08T12:12:50.262-08:00Anonymous, rarely does anyone use the word "r...Anonymous, rarely does anyone use the word "retarded" to mean slow down or delay anymore.<br /><br />From dictionary.com:<br /><br />re·tard·ed<br /> [ri-tahr-did] Show IPA<br />adjective<br />1.<br />characterized by retardation: a retarded child.<br />noun<br />2.<br />( used with a plural verb ) mentally retarded persons collectively (usually preceded by the ): new schools for the retarded. <br /><br />So, when you use the word, even towards a "thing," you are giving it an adjective that refers to those with mental delays. I'm sorry you do that. But, understand that no matter to what you're referring, if you say the word in front of a child who is differently-abled, YOU are responsible for those hurt feelings, and that must suck, if you think about it, that you would CHOOSE to cause hurt feelings when another word would so easily suffice.<br /><br />Sorry, good try, but no go.<br /><br />Amber, we love you and V so much!Rachel H.http://sassyvixen.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-15046905033786601072012-03-08T08:00:37.570-08:002012-03-08T08:00:37.570-08:00Let me add... I will not argue, & will not res...Let me add... I will not argue, & will not respond to anything else said by this person. Amber's blog should not be tarnished by any ongoing feud.Erica Leenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-45611845350419979122012-03-08T07:57:02.065-08:002012-03-08T07:57:02.065-08:00Amen to the previous TWO responses. Intriguing th...Amen to the previous TWO responses. Intriguing that this person posts as Anonymous. There are MANY words that are highly offensive, even when used in "correct context". Would you walk around using the "n" word? After all, it means ignorant? HECK no! Even typing "n" word wrenches MY gut, & I am Caucassion! As V's (AMAZING) mother said, until you have been in her shoes.. How dare you tell her how a word should make her feel... OR judge her for her feelings! Oh, & as for needing negative words to use... TRUST me, fool, there are a plethera of those in existance that don't target people with characteristics they were born with.Erica Leenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-34695130363908320942012-03-08T06:55:33.765-08:002012-03-08T06:55:33.765-08:00It's funny how a person can hide behind their ...It's funny how a person can hide behind their electronic window and preach such crap. Anonymous, given the chance to be face to face with the parent of a DS child or a DS person themselves I'm sure you would have a different view. I was once uneducated and then I met Amber. I now feel that the use of the R word in ANY form is disrespectful. It's no worse than using the N word to an African American. As a society we have evolved and are more educated, therefore language changes. I truly hope you have the opportunity at some point in your life to see how truly amazing someone with a disability of any kind is. I am a better, more well rounded person having met Amber and Violet. Amber, thank you for sharing your story and daily struggles with us. You are a true testimony of how society SHOULD be! <3 u!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09969966335238113033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-74102336610453241862012-03-08T05:41:56.033-08:002012-03-08T05:41:56.033-08:00Anonymous,
Until you are the mother or the father...Anonymous,<br /><br />Until you are the mother or the father of MY daughter, which thankfully will never happen, do not tell me what I should and should not feel or what I can and cannot feel. You do not walk in my shoes so do not even pretend to understand the situation. Use the word as I said. Go for it. But there are hundreds of thousands that feel the exact same as I do and you will NOT change our mind just as I will not change your mind. So what is the point in you posting on this blog? Were you looking for an argument? To stir the pot? If you want to post something in opposition go make a blog post. Because you will not reach anyone on this one and it was a complete waste of time. And my message is placed exactly where it needs to be. Sorry that you just don't get it.Amber Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08636946528610580637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-44156458368183575622012-03-07T17:52:48.914-08:002012-03-07T17:52:48.914-08:00Words do not hurt people. The context of how word...Words do not hurt people. The context of how words are used is what hurts people. If simply hearing a word, regardless of how it is being used offends you, you have bigger problems. If I were to say that my internet connection is retarded. That should not offend you, as I have appropriately used the word. It simply means to slow down or delay. If the word was used in a manner to belittle someone, then it is being used in a derogatory manner which you would be perfectly in the right to be offended. Your message should not be to stop using words as that is a bad message. Your message should be to use words appropriately, and to respect other people. Language can not exist without negative connotative words, as the world and life are not 100% positive, so we need negative words to use.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-60614075074941598832012-02-17T03:48:19.528-08:002012-02-17T03:48:19.528-08:00Unfortunately there are many words used today that...Unfortunately there are many words used today that are regarded as offensive. R is only one of these. What I think is missing in our world is RESPECT of one another. Words are used aimlessly, without thought and usually not intended to target anyone-just thoughtless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-6087631251725921812012-01-20T07:37:37.905-08:002012-01-20T07:37:37.905-08:00You're very welcome and any time!You're very welcome and any time!Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08723889820589712859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-41494135888354065812012-01-17T13:20:26.473-08:002012-01-17T13:20:26.473-08:00I spend time with one of my best friends each week...I spend time with one of my best friends each week who has Down Syndrome and I could not agree with you more, the "R" word makes me sick. I have told everyone I know to STOP using it. You inspire us all!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03739687569905559480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-57808219711192656362012-01-16T10:43:21.350-08:002012-01-16T10:43:21.350-08:00P.S. Violet is beautiful.P.S. Violet is beautiful.graceonlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07600679221472546269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-14504888790456986492012-01-16T10:42:50.189-08:002012-01-16T10:42:50.189-08:00Thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting ...Thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting this page. It means a great deal.graceonlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07600679221472546269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-874042474738220309.post-20769881391567971932012-01-06T15:51:56.989-08:002012-01-06T15:51:56.989-08:00Beautifully said! We truly don't think before ...Beautifully said! We truly don't think before we open our mouths and hurtful words come out and there is no takeing them back.<br />Violet is a beautiful girl and her pictures are amazing, love them.<br />I hope you never hear that word again but mostly I hope Violet never has to hear that word.Dawnhttp://realestatewithdawn.comnoreply@blogger.com